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The man used to respect their customs. When the woman comes, they must consider the man's custom. Xiamen marriage customs In ancient times, people always regarded marriage as the most proud event in life. Therefore, there is a phrase "the pride of life is not over the cave's candle night, the gold list is nominated", and joked that the marriage was married. Wedding customs from ancient times to the present are one of the most complicated and important etiquettes in etiquette. In the 21st century of abandonment of the efficiency of simply studying, the Chinese who are empathy and righteous still continue the traditional wedding customs. Young friends usually spend with the new people in the wedding of others, but to the wedding, but to the wedding The custom did not pay much attention. When the happy event came to himself, he was at a loss and was at a loss. Here we will introduce Xiamen's wedding customs in detail, hoping to help new people. This The ancient men in my country were 20 years old, and women were 15 years old as adults. They need to hold a gift of championship and adding a lot, showing that they have been in the year of marriage. Wang the successful marriage of men and women, depending on the matchmaker, play a vital bridge role in the fate of men and women. The procedure is as big as: the man first entrusted the matchmaker to the woman's family, and Xiamen was commonly known as: "Timber". The woman's parents had no intention of marrying a daughter, and the matchmaker had to leave, and asked others to exercise. For example, the woman's parents intentionally asked the matchmaker to write a red note with a male name, birth year, month, day, hour, occupation, etc.- "Zi Zi" matchmaker immediately introduced the woman's name and appearance to the man The family situation exaggerates, intending to explain that the door is right, and the man wrote the "word" traffic media. The woman got the "character" in front of the ancestral tablet of the main hall, and burned the incense and worshiped. "Portal", the parties' own inquiry, the portal is equivalent, that is, to make a matter, then the woman's "character" and the man's "character" are sent to the male's house to agree to the marriage. After that, the matchmaker arranged the appropriate time, and the location "passed" with each other. It's life of the children of Xiamen in the old days, depending on the life of parents, the words of the media, and the first of the mandibular jaw, there is no indispensable. Is to mention relatives, just the beginning of marriage.
In the fixed
It the old Xiamen delivery was very particular, it was sloppy. . Preparation: ① Reading money: Sending it is the key to marriage or not. The hiring is a level. The man must talk to the female house with the matchmaker and talk to his family. Usually take even. ② Talking about hiring gifts: Types, names, quantities, and matching ratio are all calculated content. The female family has Hanxin to order soldiers, and the gesture of more goodness, the male family needs to consider many parties because this is a big burden. In this regard, the opinions are rare, and it is quite expensive, often injured and gentle here. ③ Booking date: Both sides have to ask for calculations according to the "eight characters" of both men and women. Select the good day of the wounded parties. The man will hire the money and send it to the woman's house lively. . Implementing the gift ① ritual cake: commonly known as "big cake and cheese flower". "Big Cake" is the special bowl mouth of the big horseshoe crispy, two packages, red paper bags, hundreds of thousands of bags. The "cheese flower" is the fried hollow glutinous rice bar, which is wrapped in syrup and sticks to "rice incense" (popcorn). The "four -color cake" is a variety of packaging into seal small pie. According to the number of "big cakes", it is matched with the corresponding "cheese flower" and "four -color cake". ② ritual sugar: Big sugar ---- pressed into a mid-lump sugar, compact-solid small pieces of sugar. "Big Sugar Small" is auspicious in dragon and phoenix or happy character patterns, or "a hundred years of good", which is matched proportionally. ③ whole pig and whole sheep or pork leg. The woman accepted pigs and mutton, but her feet needed to refund the male home. As the saying goes, "The meat is given to people, and the bones will not be given," otherwise, it is "vulgar", that is, disrespect to the male family. ④ Noodle line: The meaning of longevity is the blessing to the newcomer and longevity. ⑤ rock sugar: winter melon sugar, orange cake persimbu fruit (persimmon), raw flowers (sugar -raw flowers) dates, that is, "eating sweet and sophisticated," the auspiciousness, the meaning of the noble son. ⑥ 、 、, living chicken live duck, and the long -term peace, harmonious and peaceful, the woman leaves wine and returns chickens and ducks. ⑦ Dragon and phoenix big red candle, ritual cannon, ritual fragrance, dragon and phoenix candle for women to hold a "top" (crown) ceremony before marriage. ⑧ jewelry, bracelets, rings, necklaces, gold and silver and other jewelry: Women wear before marrying to pray for richness and rich life, and also contain the meaning of exorcism. 头 Pan head shirt: new clothes, embroidered shoes, four seasons, general four, eight sets, or more, more even -numbers when they are married, and red. 方 Delivery the southern wedding book to the woman. three, female home return gift: ① Accept most of the gift cakes and brown, return a small part, commonly known as "Box bottom:. ③ Back to the son -in -law's wedding dresses, clothes and socks, four treasures and other gifts, I hope the son -in -law knows the gift, and it is out of place. ④ fills in the woman's wedding book and deliver the matchmaker to the man's house. It is Yuan Ding for life, and the marriage is successful.
engagement articles . The ancestor sacrifice Before the man goes to the woman's house, the ancestor sacrifice ceremony at home, and will be held at home, and will be held at home, and will be the ancestor ceremony, and will be held at home, and will be the ancestral ceremony at home. The box of cakes used in the hires), big cakes, displayed in front of the ancestors, the Xiangxiang festival will list the ancestor Liezong to hire a female house, and ask the ancestors to bless this marriage and happiness. The number of hires should be doubled, and the man and relatives of the man's family will be the same. . Na Cai: The man hired the team to the door of the woman's house. The man set off firecrackers. Welcome to each other, and the brothers of the brothers open the door for the groom alone, and then wash their faces to let the groom wash their hands and wipe their hands. The groom should answer the red envelope. Then give the gift to the brothers and brothers of the bride. Female family, at this time, the matchmaker introduced the family and relatives and friends of both parties to know each other, and spoke some auspicious words to add joy, and the relatives and friends of both parties can also take this opportunity to greet them. . The hired The elders of Fushou Shuangquan, in front of the ancestral case of the ancestors to order candle, fragrant incense, cakes, and ceremony, and silently wish this female marriage happiness. Began engagement ceremony: ① Feng Sweet Tea: The prospective bride is in the matchmaker Accompanied by the sweet tea, the relatives and friends of the man who came to the hire, and the matchmaker-the male relatives can take this opportunity to check the bride. Holding the tea tray to collect the cup, the male visitors should put the red envelope and the tea cup on the tea tray at this time, that is, commonly known as "Tea Pressing" ③ Wear ring: Golden ring, copper ring, set with red lines from the groom, On the middle finger of the bride's right hand, symbolize the same concentric. Usually when wearing a ring, they deliberately flex the middle finger, so as not to be eaten by the other party in the future, but mutual trust is the way to win. At this point, the woman should ignite the artillery, and the men and women have congratulated each other to make their children and share the wedding cakes with relatives and friends. ⑤ engagement wedding feast: After the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman's family set up a banquet to the men and the matchmaker The man should send the red envelope "Pressing the table" to the woman. After the banquet, the entire engagement ceremony is also ended. ⑥ Return to gift: After the banquet, the man should leave as soon as possible, not for a long time, and the woman will give back the man to the man. Twelve gifts such as groom clothing, leather shoes, etc., at the same time, also let the man bring a few boxes of cakes, ritual fragrance, candle, and ritual artillery. At the same time, there are matchmaker gifts. When the man goes home, you must not see each other. Because of the next employment, how can you come again for the second time. ⑦ 因为 因为 祖: After the man goes home, To tell the ancestral ceremony, inform the ceremony of Na Ca, and share the woman's respected cakes to share relatives and friends.
Wedding articles
Wedding is a vital event in life. Never vague. . Preparation before marriage ① Select the best period ② advertising relatives and friends: please post, inform the wedding period, banquet place, time, and send gift cake gift sugar. It is also necessary to follow the relationship between pro -vegetables and thick feelings, otherwise it will attract objections. The things congratulated by relatives must be suspended to show their attention. ③: Men and women are carried out at the same time. The tailor must try the "good life" of the husband and wife. The bride must make a white cloth "belly skirt" with red lines or red silk satin edges to prepare for the baby's clothing after birth. ④ joint accounts: On the day of the male family's tailoring, the top sheet must be made. ⑤ bed bed: Please be familiar with a relatives who are familiar with Zhongzhi Wei, choose Jiyi Liangchen, consider the new couple's birthday, and ask for peace and good luck. After the bed is good, use wine, meat, tofu and other things to sacrifice the mother of the bed, pray for his peace, and bless many people. That night, the groom was going to sleep in a new bed with a boy with his parents. He said: The boys are dried up, that is, the boy sleeps on the bed and turns around. The bride will have a good sign of the boy in the future. ⑥ Send the dowry and marry the front day or days. General money, clothes, fabrics, gold wares, ritual cakes, ritual sugar, melon sugar, orange cakes, red dates, longan dried meat, refreshments, daily necessities, etc., as well as descendants. When the descendants can be taken into the new house, you have to read: "The descendants (mention) are high, and the children are born in the middle." The "upper" men and women wear a white cloth shirt called "upper shirt and pants", sitting on the ancestor of the main hall on the front bamboo chair. The man sits inward, and the woman is sitting outwards. Put a large "add" in front of the god -a flat bamboo sun -made large sun, spread a red carpet, put a small bamboo chair on the blanket, and use it. Before the ceremony, twelve dishes were placed before the throne, burning incense, candle, and worshiping ancestors. Then combed his hair from the back. After combing, the man wore a red silk thread and put on a cucklet. The woman's "head" must "open the face" first -twisted the face with red lines, sweat on the face, combed her head, and inserted it on the bun with a bun. When combing his hair, "good life" wants to read the man: "With the crown on the top, I go out to sit in the big place, eat a cup of wine, say the name of the person." : "Comb with your hair, and get gold in gold" means a blessing to live a good life. . Marriage: ⑴ ⑴ worship ancestors -the groom should worship the ancestors before going out to welcome the bride. 妹 Sister Table -Before the bride sets off, eat with parents and sisters to show parting, and everyone speaks some auspicious words. n n ― ― ― ― is better, six or six times. Mercy, accompanied by, uncle (groom's younger brother) groom, bride's sedan. Firecrackers along the way. ― -The door closed the door before the wedding team arrived, letting the groom knock on the door. The female family asked, "What is it?" The groom replied, "Marry the bride!" After listening, the girl's family opened the door a little, and the groom went into a red envelope, and the door was closed. As some time, the female family opened the door to welcome the guests. The woman's move is to retain the wealth and test the sincerity of the groom. The groom entered the door and met with his mother -in -law. 鸡 Eat egg tea -the groom wants to eat bowl to remove the shell and whole egg sugar water. The groom only drinks sweet soup and leaves eggs. 别 ― -the groom and the bride worshiped their ancestors, bid farewell to their parents, and put them on the sedan by their parents or siblings. ― -the bride is accompanied by an umbrella to pick up the car or get on the car. Before leaving the sedan, the bride will cry a few times, commonly known as "crying good life", and his parents and relatives should cry a few times. Speak goodbye and blessings. As soon as the bride's sedan went out, the bride immediately dropped a fan, commonly known as "rest assured fan", intended to tell his parents to rest assured that he didn't need to care. Everyone does not say goodbye to the female family. The groom does not look back. ：: When the sedan reaches the door of the male home and waits for the sedan gates, a tile of charcoal fire in front of the sedan. In front of the groom, the little aunt holds a plate of oranges and stands next to the car door. When the rice sieve is talked, as soon as the groom is, the groom kicks the car door three times, and the sedan door is opened. The little aunt holds the orange plate and let the bride touch. The door, raised rice to screen the bride's head quickly, the bride came out of the sedan door, stepped on the tile, and the groom took the charcoal to enter the gate. This kick door is intended to be prestigious in the bride of the town, and touching the citrus symbolizes the success and auspicious life of the husband and wife; The sound of artillery was endless. 天 worshiping heaven and earth -after the bride gets started, and the groom enters a new house after worshiping the heavens and the earth with the groom. 洞 Entering the cave -the bride enters the cave, and can only pass through the threshold, avoid stepping in the threshold. As soon as you enter the cave, the door can be left on the third day, showing its nobleness. 合 eats "wedding circle". ——The groom and groom eats a dumplings and feed each other. It means that each other is in the same way, sharing with Gan, love each other. After that, I ate the "Wine Wedding Table", the "good life" palm table, and the groom and bride sat on both sides of the round table; this table was on a total of twelve dishes, six osmoray and six vegetarian. To the bride and groom's mouth, feed. Each dish, that is, I wishes auspicious words with auspiciousness, with rhyme, fun, humorous, and humorous, and the whole new house laughs. The on the lobby -On the third day after marriage, the bride went out of the new house for the first time. The bride worshiped his family and elders, and the elders put the prepared red envelopes on the tea tray as "pressing the tea tray". Beainer's table banquet -On the afternoon of the day of the hall, the male family set up a "bride table" banquet to the little sister -in -law family family members, because the female family sent the little sister -in -law to visit, bringing fruits and food such as bananas, winter melon sugar, little sister -in -law, little sister -in -law, little sister -in -law When you go to the hall to meet your own house and please, you must give the red envelope of "Sugar Money". The bride sitting in the middle of the place. During the table, a bowl in front of the little sister -in -law must be put on the bowl of chickens, ducks, fish, etc. When the sister -in -law went home, he took it and said that the bride had something to eat, and his parents had the lead. 厅 厅 ― -On the third night, the husband's family banquet guests. After the seat, the guests were in the hall. The bride made sweet tea, the guests, and the guests had to speak auspicious words when receiving tea. On the left, the right sentence is smooth and rhyme, the elegant and vulgar appreciation, and the atmosphere is lively. At this point, the wedding announced an end.
The return to the mother's house
On the fourth day after marriage, the little sister -in -law and their parents came to ask the bride to return to the mother's house to visit their parents, commonly known as "guest". The in -laws want to call the sister -in -law's red envelope. The bride was accompanied by the groom home. The husband's family must prepare cakes, four -color cakes, flowers, fruits, etc., and give the female parents, elders, and junior red envelopes, and bring them away. The female parents doubled the money in the red envelope, and gave the other elders with the other elders of the family. On the day of the "guest", the female family's family joined the feast to dark. The bride "guest" must return to her mother -in -law's house on the same day. When she goes to the home, she must have any light in the family. Customs: "Dark touch, Sheng Qianpu". After the wedding full moon, the bride can spend the night at the maid's house. This family must bring back a gift to her daughter: ① Ama burning -a light chicken with sugar, warm up the grandmother's grandma; ② Ganjia burned -a pork leg with sugar, warm up the mother -in -law. ③ Bringing the chicken -a pair of "chicken" (chicken), bring back to the new house, put it under the bed, and give birth to men and women; n ④ Tail cane -Choose a good sugar cane with the leaves and take it home. After the new house is erected, the couple lives "head and tail" happiness and sweetness. ⑤ Rice cake -sweet glutinous rice, red and white, symbolizes difficulty, regardless of each other. ⑥ Fruit for each type of food: buns, twists, four -color cakes, noodle peaches and other foods; bananas, citrus, longan and other fruits. I wish my life sweet afterwards. ⑦ Eat in the room -a variety of sour and sweet foods for two people to enjoy or treat guests. 甘 Shoes Ganzai -small bamboo baskets equipped with needles, threads, scissors, etc., and send the needle thread technology to the male home.
Seeing who marries, the woman's marriage is of course the man comes according to the man. The discussion for the new house supplies to buy, the dowry man gives the same way. superstition is sometimes used to renovate people. After watching Xiao Erni's marriage, you understand. . This situation is indeed. Some Gods and Eyes are contradictory with your family. You will say that your marriage is not good. Some are deliberately demolished by others' good marriage, and even some parents do not want to take this as an excuse, or the parents suggest that the other party said so. Although everyone does not believe it, it is not uncommon in real life. So, you said that the bright eyes and the gods are credible. This teach you a method. The two secretly give me a gift to the eyes and the gods in advance, and then take the parents with the parents. Then the eyes and the gods will definitely say good words to you. Marriage. Hehe, most of them go to the countryside. You can do it according to your house. It is best to discuss it in advance. The times are developing, and it is better to move customs and customs.
superstition is sometimes used to renovate people. After watching Xiao Erni's marriage, you understand.
The situation is indeed. Some Gods and Eyes are contradictory with your family. You will say that your marriage is not good. Some are deliberately demolished by others' good marriage, and even some parents do not want to take this as an excuse, or the parents suggest that the other party said so. Although everyone does not believe it, it is not uncommon in real life.
So, you said that this bright eye and the god of the gods are credible and not credible.
The teach you a method. The two secretly give a gift to the eyes and the gods in advance, and then take the parents with the parents. Marriage is married.
Haha, most of them go to the countryside. You can do it according to your house. It is best to discuss it in advance. The times are developing, and it is better to move customs and customs.
The man used to respect their customs. When the woman comes, they must consider the man's custom. Xiamen marriage customs
In ancient times, people always regarded marriage as the most proud event in life. Therefore, there is a phrase "the pride of life is not over the cave's candle night, the gold list is nominated", and joked that the marriage was married. Wedding customs from ancient times to the present are one of the most complicated and important etiquettes in etiquette. In the 21st century of abandonment of the efficiency of simply studying, the Chinese who are empathy and righteous still continue the traditional wedding customs. Young friends usually spend with the new people in the wedding of others, but to the wedding, but to the wedding The custom did not pay much attention. When the happy event came to himself, he was at a loss and was at a loss. Here we will introduce Xiamen's wedding customs in detail, hoping to help new people.
This
The ancient men in my country were 20 years old, and women were 15 years old as adults. They need to hold a gift of championship and adding a lot, showing that they have been in the year of marriage.
Wang the successful marriage of men and women, depending on the matchmaker, play a vital bridge role in the fate of men and women. The procedure is as big as: the man first entrusted the matchmaker to the woman's family, and Xiamen was commonly known as: "Timber". The woman's parents had no intention of marrying a daughter, and the matchmaker had to leave, and asked others to exercise. For example, the woman's parents intentionally asked the matchmaker to write a red note with a male name, birth year, month, day, hour, occupation, etc.- "Zi Zi" matchmaker immediately introduced the woman's name and appearance to the man The family situation exaggerates, intending to explain that the door is right, and the man wrote the "word" traffic media. The woman got the "character" in front of the ancestral tablet of the main hall, and burned the incense and worshiped. "Portal", the parties' own inquiry, the portal is equivalent, that is, to make a matter, then the woman's "character" and the man's "character" are sent to the male's house to agree to the marriage. After that, the matchmaker arranged the appropriate time, and the location "passed" with each other.
It's life of the children of Xiamen in the old days, depending on the life of parents, the words of the media, and the first of the mandibular jaw, there is no indispensable.
Is to mention relatives, just the beginning of marriage.
In the fixed
It the old Xiamen delivery was very particular, it was sloppy.
. Preparation:
① Reading money: Sending it is the key to marriage or not. The hiring is a level. The man must talk to the female house with the matchmaker and talk to his family. Usually take even.
② Talking about hiring gifts: Types, names, quantities, and matching ratio are all calculated content. The female family has Hanxin to order soldiers, and the gesture of more goodness, the male family needs to consider many parties because this is a big burden. In this regard, the opinions are rare, and it is quite expensive, often injured and gentle here.
③ Booking date: Both sides have to ask for calculations according to the "eight characters" of both men and women. Select the good day of the wounded parties. The man will hire the money and send it to the woman's house lively.
. Implementing the gift
① ritual cake: commonly known as "big cake and cheese flower". "Big Cake" is the special bowl mouth of the big horseshoe crispy, two packages, red paper bags, hundreds of thousands of bags. The "cheese flower" is the fried hollow glutinous rice bar, which is wrapped in syrup and sticks to "rice incense" (popcorn). The "four -color cake" is a variety of packaging into seal small pie. According to the number of "big cakes", it is matched with the corresponding "cheese flower" and "four -color cake".
② ritual sugar: Big sugar ---- pressed into a mid-lump sugar, compact-solid small pieces of sugar. "Big Sugar Small" is auspicious in dragon and phoenix or happy character patterns, or "a hundred years of good", which is matched proportionally.
③ whole pig and whole sheep or pork leg. The woman accepted pigs and mutton, but her feet needed to refund the male home. As the saying goes, "The meat is given to people, and the bones will not be given," otherwise, it is "vulgar", that is, disrespect to the male family.
④ Noodle line: The meaning of longevity is the blessing to the newcomer and longevity.
⑤ rock sugar: winter melon sugar, orange cake persimbu fruit (persimmon), raw flowers (sugar -raw flowers) dates, that is, "eating sweet and sophisticated," the auspiciousness, the meaning of the noble son.
⑥ 、 、, living chicken live duck, and the long -term peace, harmonious and peaceful, the woman leaves wine and returns chickens and ducks.
⑦ Dragon and phoenix big red candle, ritual cannon, ritual fragrance, dragon and phoenix candle for women to hold a "top" (crown) ceremony before marriage.
⑧ jewelry, bracelets, rings, necklaces, gold and silver and other jewelry: Women wear before marrying to pray for richness and rich life, and also contain the meaning of exorcism.
头 Pan head shirt: new clothes, embroidered shoes, four seasons, general four, eight sets, or more, more even -numbers when they are married, and red.
方 Delivery the southern wedding book to the woman.
three, female home return gift:
① Accept most of the gift cakes and brown, return a small part, commonly known as "Box bottom:.
③ Back to the son -in -law's wedding dresses, clothes and socks, four treasures and other gifts, I hope the son -in -law knows the gift, and it is out of place.
④ fills in the woman's wedding book and deliver the matchmaker to the man's house. It is Yuan Ding for life, and the marriage is successful.
engagement articles
. The ancestor sacrifice
Before the man goes to the woman's house, the ancestor sacrifice ceremony at home, and will be held at home, and will be held at home, and will be the ancestor ceremony, and will be held at home, and will be the ancestral ceremony at home. The box of cakes used in the hires), big cakes, displayed in front of the ancestors, the Xiangxiang festival will list the ancestor Liezong to hire a female house, and ask the ancestors to bless this marriage and happiness.
The number of hires should be doubled, and the man and relatives of the man's family will be the same.
. Na Cai:
The man hired the team to the door of the woman's house. The man set off firecrackers. Welcome to each other, and the brothers of the brothers open the door for the groom alone, and then wash their faces to let the groom wash their hands and wipe their hands. The groom should answer the red envelope. Then give the gift to the brothers and brothers of the bride. Female family, at this time, the matchmaker introduced the family and relatives and friends of both parties to know each other, and spoke some auspicious words to add joy, and the relatives and friends of both parties can also take this opportunity to greet them.
. The hired
The elders of Fushou Shuangquan, in front of the ancestral case of the ancestors to order candle, fragrant incense, cakes, and ceremony, and silently wish this female marriage happiness. Began engagement ceremony:
① Feng Sweet Tea: The prospective bride is in the matchmaker Accompanied by the sweet tea, the relatives and friends of the man who came to the hire, and the matchmaker-the male relatives can take this opportunity to check the bride.
Holding the tea tray to collect the cup, the male visitors should put the red envelope and the tea cup on the tea tray at this time, that is, commonly known as "Tea Pressing"
③ Wear ring: Golden ring, copper ring, set with red lines from the groom, On the middle finger of the bride's right hand, symbolize the same concentric. Usually when wearing a ring, they deliberately flex the middle finger, so as not to be eaten by the other party in the future, but mutual trust is the way to win. At this point, the woman should ignite the artillery, and the men and women have congratulated each other to make their children and share the wedding cakes with relatives and friends.
⑤ engagement wedding feast: After the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman's family set up a banquet to the men and the matchmaker The man should send the red envelope "Pressing the table" to the woman. After the banquet, the entire engagement ceremony is also ended.
⑥ Return to gift: After the banquet, the man should leave as soon as possible, not for a long time, and the woman will give back the man to the man. Twelve gifts such as groom clothing, leather shoes, etc., at the same time, also let the man bring a few boxes of cakes, ritual fragrance, candle, and ritual artillery. At the same time, there are matchmaker gifts. When the man goes home, you must not see each other. Because of the next employment, how can you come again for the second time.
⑦ 因为 因为 祖: After the man goes home, To tell the ancestral ceremony, inform the ceremony of Na Ca, and share the woman's respected cakes to share relatives and friends.
Wedding articles
Wedding is a vital event in life. Never vague.
. Preparation before marriage
① Select the best period
② advertising relatives and friends: please post, inform the wedding period, banquet place, time, and send gift cake gift sugar. It is also necessary to follow the relationship between pro -vegetables and thick feelings, otherwise it will attract objections. The things congratulated by relatives must be suspended to show their attention.
③: Men and women are carried out at the same time. The tailor must try the "good life" of the husband and wife. The bride must make a white cloth "belly skirt" with red lines or red silk satin edges to prepare for the baby's clothing after birth.
④ joint accounts: On the day of the male family's tailoring, the top sheet must be made.
⑤ bed bed: Please be familiar with a relatives who are familiar with Zhongzhi Wei, choose Jiyi Liangchen, consider the new couple's birthday, and ask for peace and good luck. After the bed is good, use wine, meat, tofu and other things to sacrifice the mother of the bed, pray for his peace, and bless many people. That night, the groom was going to sleep in a new bed with a boy with his parents. He said: The boys are dried up, that is, the boy sleeps on the bed and turns around. The bride will have a good sign of the boy in the future.
⑥ Send the dowry and marry the front day or days. General money, clothes, fabrics, gold wares, ritual cakes, ritual sugar, melon sugar, orange cakes, red dates, longan dried meat, refreshments, daily necessities, etc., as well as descendants. When the descendants can be taken into the new house, you have to read: "The descendants (mention) are high, and the children are born in the middle." The "upper" men and women wear a white cloth shirt called "upper shirt and pants", sitting on the ancestor of the main hall on the front bamboo chair. The man sits inward, and the woman is sitting outwards. Put a large "add" in front of the god -a flat bamboo sun -made large sun, spread a red carpet, put a small bamboo chair on the blanket, and use it. Before the ceremony, twelve dishes were placed before the throne, burning incense, candle, and worshiping ancestors. Then combed his hair from the back. After combing, the man wore a red silk thread and put on a cucklet. The woman's "head" must "open the face" first -twisted the face with red lines, sweat on the face, combed her head, and inserted it on the bun with a bun. When combing his hair, "good life" wants to read the man: "With the crown on the top, I go out to sit in the big place, eat a cup of wine, say the name of the person." : "Comb with your hair, and get gold in gold" means a blessing to live a good life.
. Marriage:
⑴ ⑴ worship ancestors -the groom should worship the ancestors before going out to welcome the bride.
妹 Sister Table -Before the bride sets off, eat with parents and sisters to show parting, and everyone speaks some auspicious words.
n n ― ― ― ― is better, six or six times. Mercy, accompanied by, uncle (groom's younger brother) groom, bride's sedan. Firecrackers along the way.
― -The door closed the door before the wedding team arrived, letting the groom knock on the door. The female family asked, "What is it?" The groom replied, "Marry the bride!" After listening, the girl's family opened the door a little, and the groom went into a red envelope, and the door was closed. As some time, the female family opened the door to welcome the guests. The woman's move is to retain the wealth and test the sincerity of the groom. The groom entered the door and met with his mother -in -law.
鸡 Eat egg tea -the groom wants to eat bowl to remove the shell and whole egg sugar water. The groom only drinks sweet soup and leaves eggs.
别 ― -the groom and the bride worshiped their ancestors, bid farewell to their parents, and put them on the sedan by their parents or siblings.
― -the bride is accompanied by an umbrella to pick up the car or get on the car. Before leaving the sedan, the bride will cry a few times, commonly known as "crying good life", and his parents and relatives should cry a few times. Speak goodbye and blessings. As soon as the bride's sedan went out, the bride immediately dropped a fan, commonly known as "rest assured fan", intended to tell his parents to rest assured that he didn't need to care. Everyone does not say goodbye to the female family. The groom does not look back.
：: When the sedan reaches the door of the male home and waits for the sedan gates, a tile of charcoal fire in front of the sedan. In front of the groom, the little aunt holds a plate of oranges and stands next to the car door. When the rice sieve is talked, as soon as the groom is, the groom kicks the car door three times, and the sedan door is opened. The little aunt holds the orange plate and let the bride touch. The door, raised rice to screen the bride's head quickly, the bride came out of the sedan door, stepped on the tile, and the groom took the charcoal to enter the gate. This kick door is intended to be prestigious in the bride of the town, and touching the citrus symbolizes the success and auspicious life of the husband and wife; The sound of artillery was endless.
天 worshiping heaven and earth -after the bride gets started, and the groom enters a new house after worshiping the heavens and the earth with the groom.
洞 Entering the cave -the bride enters the cave, and can only pass through the threshold, avoid stepping in the threshold. As soon as you enter the cave, the door can be left on the third day, showing its nobleness.
合 eats "wedding circle". ——The groom and groom eats a dumplings and feed each other. It means that each other is in the same way, sharing with Gan, love each other. After that, I ate the "Wine Wedding Table", the "good life" palm table, and the groom and bride sat on both sides of the round table; this table was on a total of twelve dishes, six osmoray and six vegetarian. To the bride and groom's mouth, feed. Each dish, that is, I wishes auspicious words with auspiciousness, with rhyme, fun, humorous, and humorous, and the whole new house laughs.
The on the lobby -On the third day after marriage, the bride went out of the new house for the first time. The bride worshiped his family and elders, and the elders put the prepared red envelopes on the tea tray as "pressing the tea tray".
Beainer's table banquet -On the afternoon of the day of the hall, the male family set up a "bride table" banquet to the little sister -in -law family family members, because the female family sent the little sister -in -law to visit, bringing fruits and food such as bananas, winter melon sugar, little sister -in -law, little sister -in -law, little sister -in -law When you go to the hall to meet your own house and please, you must give the red envelope of "Sugar Money". The bride sitting in the middle of the place. During the table, a bowl in front of the little sister -in -law must be put on the bowl of chickens, ducks, fish, etc. When the sister -in -law went home, he took it and said that the bride had something to eat, and his parents had the lead.
厅 厅 ― -On the third night, the husband's family banquet guests. After the seat, the guests were in the hall. The bride made sweet tea, the guests, and the guests had to speak auspicious words when receiving tea. On the left, the right sentence is smooth and rhyme, the elegant and vulgar appreciation, and the atmosphere is lively. At this point, the wedding announced an end.
The return to the mother's house
On the fourth day after marriage, the little sister -in -law and their parents came to ask the bride to return to the mother's house to visit their parents, commonly known as "guest". The in -laws want to call the sister -in -law's red envelope.
The bride was accompanied by the groom home. The husband's family must prepare cakes, four -color cakes, flowers, fruits, etc., and give the female parents, elders, and junior red envelopes, and bring them away. The female parents doubled the money in the red envelope, and gave the other elders with the other elders of the family. On the day of the "guest", the female family's family joined the feast to dark.
The bride "guest" must return to her mother -in -law's house on the same day. When she goes to the home, she must have any light in the family. Customs: "Dark touch, Sheng Qianpu". After the wedding full moon, the bride can spend the night at the maid's house.
This family must bring back a gift to her daughter:
① Ama burning -a light chicken with sugar, warm up the grandmother's grandma;
② Ganjia burned -a pork leg with sugar, warm up the mother -in -law.
③ Bringing the chicken -a pair of "chicken" (chicken), bring back to the new house, put it under the bed, and give birth to men and women; n ④ Tail cane -Choose a good sugar cane with the leaves and take it home. After the new house is erected, the couple lives "head and tail" happiness and sweetness.
⑤ Rice cake -sweet glutinous rice, red and white, symbolizes difficulty, regardless of each other.
⑥ Fruit for each type of food: buns, twists, four -color cakes, noodle peaches and other foods; bananas, citrus, longan and other fruits. I wish my life sweet afterwards.
⑦ Eat in the room -a variety of sour and sweet foods for two people to enjoy or treat guests.
甘 Shoes Ganzai -small bamboo baskets equipped with needles, threads, scissors, etc., and send the needle thread technology to the male home.
Seeing who marries, the woman's marriage is of course the man comes according to the man.
The discussion for the new house supplies to buy, the dowry man gives the same way.
superstition is sometimes used to renovate people. After watching Xiao Erni's marriage, you understand.
. This situation is indeed. Some Gods and Eyes are contradictory with your family. You will say that your marriage is not good. Some are deliberately demolished by others' good marriage, and even some parents do not want to take this as an excuse, or the parents suggest that the other party said so. Although everyone does not believe it, it is not uncommon in real life.
So, you said that the bright eyes and the gods are credible.
This teach you a method. The two secretly give me a gift to the eyes and the gods in advance, and then take the parents with the parents. Then the eyes and the gods will definitely say good words to you. Marriage.
Hehe, most of them go to the countryside. You can do it according to your house. It is best to discuss it in advance. The times are developing, and it is better to move customs and customs.
Ha ha.
superstition is sometimes used to renovate people. After watching Xiao Erni's marriage, you understand.
The situation is indeed. Some Gods and Eyes are contradictory with your family. You will say that your marriage is not good. Some are deliberately demolished by others' good marriage, and even some parents do not want to take this as an excuse, or the parents suggest that the other party said so. Although everyone does not believe it, it is not uncommon in real life.
So, you said that this bright eye and the god of the gods are credible and not credible.
The teach you a method. The two secretly give a gift to the eyes and the gods in advance, and then take the parents with the parents. Marriage is married.
You can make some proper, after all, it will be a family in the future. You can also negotiate the woman of the new house supplies.
Haha, most of them go to the countryside. You can do it according to your house. It is best to discuss it in advance. The times are developing, and it is better to move customs and customs.